Welcome Ones and allies!

This is our space.

Who are The Ones? We are those who made it. We’ve got guts, grit, and a little bit of magic that's all our own. We started with less. We stood up to the system. And we made it through.

Are you a One? Do you hold back, sensing what you have to contribute won't make a bit of difference? Still, are you determined and resourceful enough to overcome the hurdles? Do the words ‘lift as you climb’ ring true every hour of every day?

This is our space—us Ones, those on the way, and allies who lend us a hand. It’s a home away from home. Somewhere for help, stimulating exchange, and a place to just hang out. Look around. Check out recent posts. Write to Ms. Harriet for advice. Click here to read more. Or, take the Am I One? Quiz.


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